For nearly a week now I have been paralyzed with no words. And then sometimes too many words. I have lost sleep, spent days at work nearly in tears, and shocked myself with how angry I’ve been. This election was so personal for me because as someone who works in the mental health and social work fields I know the faces of the people that will be most affected by the next four years. I have felt completely helpless wondering what I can do in the face of impending darkness. I am still confused, angry, and overwhelmed but I have found ways to continue to orient myself in an increasingly dark world.
I will continue to sit across from women and young girls and listen to their horrific stories of sexual abuse. I will pass them tissues as I remind them they are brave and so courageous.
I will continue to celebrate with and share meals with my LGBTQ friends and family reminding them they are so loved.
I will advocate, donate money, and volunteer for organizations like Exodus Refugees. I will set a welcome mat on my porch and open my arms to you.
I will acknowledge and advocate for my friends and students with disabilities reminding them I know they are smart and capable and have so much to offer the world.
I will remind my Muslim and Latino friends and students that I want them here and that our communities would not be the same without them. I will soothe their anxieties and remind them they will not be bullied on my watch.
I will stand with my African-American friends and students and remind them their lives matter and have so much value. I will use my unearned privilege to demand justice and speak loudly. I will show my students that I see their potential and believe in their future.
I will tell these stories. I will remember your faces. I will hold onto hope when you can’t.
Because friends, despite this year's election results, the truth is that love really does trump hate.
Martin Luther King Jr. said “Returning hate for hate multiplies hate, adding deeper to a night already devoid of stars. Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate, only love can do that.”
I know this to be true. I have been face to face with people’s darkest darkness feeling completely lost and the only next step I know is to reach for love. And it works. Every time.
Love never fails.